“Do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend yet?”
“So, how many times have you dated?”
Those questions are very familiar, especially when hanging out or having a meal with friends—particularly old friends you have not seen in a long time. Sounds familiar, right? 😄
Nowadays, many young people feel proud of being “taken” and openly show their affection on social media. Unfortunately, this often makes those who are still single feel insecure or under pressure. Some even force themselves into a relationship just for the sake of having a status. If they are not careful, this can lead to choosing the wrong partner—and that can be a serious problem.
Before rushing into a relationship, let’s take a look at some of the benefits of being single.
1. More Time and Opportunities
Being single gives you more time and opportunities to develop your talents and potential. As a young person, this is the perfect phase to focus on personal growth, achievements, and self-improvement—both academically and non-academically. So, use this time wisely to sharpen your skills and build your future.
2. Better Self-Understanding
When you are single, you have more space to truly know yourself—your strengths and weaknesses. This self-awareness will help you become more confident in the future when you eventually have a partner. Knowing yourself well also makes it easier to accept the strengths and weaknesses of others.
3. More Friends and Social Connections
Relax—being single does not mean being lonely. In fact, when you are single, you often have more time to build friendships and social connections. You can meet new people, expand your network, and become a more easy-going and adaptable person in different communities.
4. Easier to Save Money
This benefit may be relative, but it is still worth mentioning. Being single often means fewer expenses—no dating costs, no frequent dinners out, and no extra spending to impress someone. As a result, you can save more money for your future goals.
After reading these advantages, be wise. Do not let a relationship status make you miss out on valuable experiences during your youth. Whether single or in a relationship, both are blessings in their own way. Keep moving forward, keep creating, and never feel ashamed of being single.
